Parenting Children of the 21st century
Global warming, natural disasters of biblical proportions, hurricanes, tsunamis, terrorists, drugs, gang wars, school shootings and famine – a world gone crazy. Many prayers reached the heavens. Our answers on the horizon. The new kids have arrived. Highly sensitive and intelligent beings, warrior kids with strong minds. No pushovers these new children. Our future finally in safe hands.
Hold your horses! A dark cloud is descending all around us. Masterminds have devised yet another survival strategy for the toxic monster of greed. Noble kings and queens sent to fight for justice - save the world, are touched by a magic wand and turned into sleeping beauties. One by one taken off life’s chess board by unsuspecting parents. Masterminds against Joe trivial. An unfair match is being played. Win or loose – at stake a multi billion dollar purse against our future - our flesh and blood. Who are you backing? Veils of deceit shroud reality. Unsuspecting masses assisting the Masterminds of greed.
You guessed right. The above little tale is hinting at the mass-drugging of 21st century children that do not conform to old world structures. They do not fit into school-systems geared to educate little conformists that do not stir and do not ask the wrong questions. Systems devised by patriarchic systems that produced what we have here today. Drugs, Crime, Pain, Diseases, Hurricane Katrina's and sure governments that allow us to be poisoned by allowing Ritalin, Pesticides, Fluor, Mercury, Amalgam fillings and other toxins to poison our bodies. These systems have been tolerated too long and need a revision. But our educational system that focuses on rote learning and is geared to produce sheep, has been invaded by a wave of kids that no longer put up with it. They act out of the norm. The next best thing is then to send them to a psychologist as they act out of the norm. Soon we have to ask ourselves what the norm is? There are rumors that in some schools 60% of the children are on drugs like Ritalin because they fidget, can't sit still, get bored and disturb the boring peace of a rote learning mill?
Is 60% not the majority? So what is the norm? These and other questions are going to be discussed in future articles. To do justice to evolution and our children.
Make no mistake. The current trend of real bratty kids does not form part of the so called "Indigo" children. I see it coming. All the kids that need counseling, are not at peace and are going through the normal grumpy, rebel teenage years are going to start answering to their parents: I am an Indigo, I am here to bust systems so better make peace with that thought.
WRONG!
Especially for 21st century children it is important to set boundaries and rules. Yet, the system of how we get to the rules has changed. When we set rules in a household, kids can also have their input as what is fair and what has to be done when a rule gets broken. So we start teamwork. From little. It works. But hey, now you have to be part of the game. If you break the rule....So it becomes a bit more difficult to parent because the power is shared. Still rules, still consequences for braking them, but this time there are rules for all family members that brake rules. Sounds fair? Treating each other with respect, integrity, honesty?
That is what the new children are all about. They want you to demonstrate the values you are always trying to instill. Please remember that children up to the age of about 7 years old are mainly mirroring behavior and feelings. So next time your cranky four year old acts up, time to take a good hard look at yourself. What made you cranky, stressed and filled with tension that your child picks it up and mirrors it back at you?
Enjoy your angels (even if they are sometimes in disguise)
Carmen M. Schnider-Kemp
In a world gone crazy, conformity no longer guarantees a job or safety. Our kids need more than an uncle who knows an uncle to have a future. In a world gone mad, where politicians overrule scientists who warn of global disasters we need brave-hearts and dragon-slayers to lead the way. Clever marketing gurus trap us in the circle of paying debts. Holding our heads above water replaces rebellious spirit. Gripped in the jaws of the debt-vice we become our own prisoners. Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Nelson Mandela, Bill Gates, to name a few unconventional personalities that contributed with lasting impact, all walked the path less traveled. They thought out of the box, non-conformists. It is impossible to solve a problem with the same mind that created it. For humanity to evolve and to ensure its survival, our new generations need to challenge the status quo. What is currently referred to as Indigo children, Crystal children, Rainbow children, Starseeds, Highly gifted children show new behavior characteristics. The most common of these traits are listed below:
Have a healthy dose of self-worth
Challenge authority (especially if it comes without reason/explanation)
Standing in a queue creates tremendous frustration, is sometimes refused completely
Rote learning/rigid rules are opposed
Act out against senseless systems and rules (at school and in the home environment)
Challenge status quo
Speak up if they feel they are treated unfairly
“Guilt” induced discipline does not work (wait until daddy gets home!)
Most manipulation techniques have very limited use
Not shy about letting people know what they need
Have in-built lie – detectors and will let you know
Very artistic, right brain dominant
Highly sensitive
Magnetic personalities
Well developed psychic abilities (clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, telepathy)
Have an intense gaze and often “wise”, large eyes
“Look straight into a person’s soul”
Auras are indigo and/or purple-blue/violet/octarine/crystal and rainbow colors
Astrology birth charts often show clusters or bundles of planets in only one half of the chart
High IQ's, does not necessarily reflect in school report
Often misdiagnosed as adhd/add
The children working with Crystal energy sometimes communicate non-verbally to the age of 3 and are frequently misdiagnosed as autistic children
There is no doubt that there are significant differences in a lot of children born from the 80's onwards. Maybe a term that would include all children would help not to exclude everybody without an indigo aura, that nevertheless is special and displays most of the character traits anyway. Times have changed. In an age where flashcards, Mums and babes workshops and Montessori schools bloom on a global scale it has to rub off on children. My 4 year old is watching not only Barney, the friendly Dinosaur that a lot of parents would love to send on the next rocket to Sirius, but also Animal planet and Discovery. Channels that tell our kids things that we never heard till High school.
Yes, the new kids are all very special. Do you have a Crystal or an Indigo? What about the mums and dads who can't find their children in any of those categories, they could explore the traits of highly gifted, star seeds, rainbow children or maybe just make peace with the idea that theirs is a "no name" brand? Then there are numerous internet groups where we read things like "I am an Indigo in conversion to Crystal by 91%"...yes, I recognize myself and my daughter 100% in the Indigo traits. I have even got the right allergies and deficiencies to qualify. Yet, bear in mind that there are at least 4 types of Indigos and all the various mixes of the 4 types. If you want to do yourself a favor, take cognizance of all the information, apply what resonates but do not create a new religion around it.
What is good for Indigo kids, is good for all kids. This flavor of new kids has come here to change the world. They came here to impact for all not just themselves. Remember one of the core messages from the Indigos is that we are all one. To separate themselves in a exclusive group of specialness would then defeat the object. Ghandi, Mother Theresa or Nelson Mandela did not run around proclaiming that they were saviors. They saved!
focus your energy in discovering your true purpose. How come you chose to come here? Shift your focus from past-lives and your possible original roots to the here and now. The only space you can make an impact on is the present. On a worldly plane and for the sake of your purpose - the guess_stimation work of your planet of origin will do little to change mother earth's pollution.
Use any parenting tips for indigo children from any of the multitude of websites and the Indigo books of Jan Tober, Lee Caroll and Doreen Virtue on ALL children and watch them starting to work with INDIGO energy.
